As I was walking in the bazaars of Al-Madinah, a man from the Syrian peasants, who had come to sell food grains in Al-Madinah, asked people to direct him to Ka'b bin Malik. People pointed towards me. He came to me and delivered a letter from the King of Ghassan, and as I was a scribe, I read that letter whose purport was: 'It has been conveyed to us that your friend (the Prophet (PBUH)) was treating you harshly. Allah has not created you for a place where you are to be degraded and where you cannot find your right place; so come to us and we shall receive you graciously.' As I read that letter I said: 'This is too a trial,' so I put it to fire in an oven. When forty days had elapsed and Messenger of Allah (PBUH) received no Revelation, there came to me a messenger of the Messenger of Allah and said, 'Verily, Messenger of Allah (PBUH) has commanded you to keep away from your wife.' I said, 'Should I divorce her or what else should I do?' He said, 'No, but only keep away from her and don't have sexual contact with her.' The same message was sent to my companions. So, I said to my wife: 'You better go to your parents and stay there with them until Allah gives the decision in my case.' The wife of Hilal bin Umaiyyah came to Messenger of Allah (PBUH) and said: 'O Messenger of Allah, Hilal bin Umaiyyah is a senile person and has no servant. Do you disapprove if I serve him?' He said, 'No, but don't let him have any sexual contact with you.' She said, 'By Allah, he has no such desire left in him. By Allah, he has been in tears since (this calamity) struck him.' Members of my family said to me, 'You should have sought permission from Messenger of Allah (PBUH) in regard to your wife. He has allowed the wife of Hilal bin Umaiyyah to serve him.' I said, 'I would not seek permission from Messenger of Allah (PBUH) for I do not know what Messenger of Allah might say in response to that, as I am a young man'. It was in this state that I spent ten more nights and thus fifty days had passed since people boycotted us and gave up talking to us. After I had offered my Fajr prayer on the early morning of the fiftieth day of this boycott on the roof of one of our houses, and had sat in the very state which Allah described as: 'The earth seemed constrained for me despite its vastness', I heard the voice of a proclaimer from the peak of the hill Sal' shouting at the top of his voice: 'O Ka'b bin Malik, rejoice.' I fell down in prostration and came to know that there was (a message of) relief for me. Messenger of Allah (PBUH) had informed the people about the acceptance of our repentance by Allah after he had offered the Fajr prayer. So the people went on to give us glad tidings and some of them went to my companions in order to give them the glad tidings. A man spurred his horse towards me (to give the good news), and another one from the tribe of Aslam came running for the same purpose and, as he approached the mount, I received the good news which reached me before the rider did. When the one whose voice I had heard came to me to congratulate me, I took off my garments and gave them to him for the good news he brought to me. By Allah, I possessed nothing else (in the form of clothes) except these garments, at that time. Then I borrowed two garments, dressed myself and came to Messenger of Allah (PBUH) On my way, I met groups of people who greeted me for (the acceptance of) repentance and they said: 'Congratulations for acceptance of your repentance.' I reached the mosque where Messenger of Allah (PBUH) was sitting amidst people. Talhah bin 'Ubaidullah got up and rushed towards me, shook hands with me and greeted me. By Allah, no person stood up (to greet me) from amongst the Muhajirun besides him." Ka'b said that he never forgot (this good gesture of) Talhah. Ka'b further said: "I greeted Messenger of Allah (PBUH) with 'As-salamu 'alaikum' and his face was beaming with pleasure. He (PBUH) said, 'Rejoice with the best day you have ever seen since your mother gave you birth. 'I said: 'O Messenger of Allah! Is this (good news) from you or from Allah?' He said, 'No, it is from Allah.' And it was common with Messenger of Allah (PBUH) that when ever he was happy, his face would glow as if it were a part of the moon and it was from this that we recognized it (his delight). As I sat before him, I said, I have placed a condition upon myself that if Allah accepts my Taubah, I would give up all of my property in charity for the sake of Allah and His Messenger (PBUH)!' Thereupon Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, 'Keep some property with you, as it is better for you.' I said, 'I shall keep with me that portion which is in Khaibar'. I added: 'O Messenger of Allah! Verily, Allah has granted me salvation because of my truthfulness, and therefore, repentance obliges me to speak nothing but the truth as long as I am alive." Ka'b added: "By Allah, I do not know anyone among the Muslims who has been granted truthfulness better than me since I said this to the Prophet (PBUH). By Allah! Since the time I made a pledge of this to Messenger of Allah (PBUH), I have never intended to tell a lie, and I hope that Allah would protect me (against telling lies) for the rest of my life. Allah, the Exalted, the Glorious, revealed these Verses:
'Allah has forgiven the Prophet (PBUH), the Muhajirun (Muslim Emigrants who left their homes and came to Al-Madinah) and the Ansar (Muslims of Al- Madinah) who followed him (Muhammad (PBUH)) in the time of distress (Tabuk expedition), after the hearts of a party of them had nearly deviated (from the Right Path), but He accepted their repentance. Certainly, He is unto them full of kindness, Most Merciful. And (He did forgive also) the three who did not join [the Tabuk expedition and whose case was deferred (by the Prophet (PBUH)) for Allah's Decision] till for them the earth, vast as it is, was straitened and their ownselves were straitened to them, and they perceived that there is no fleeing from Allah, and no refuge but with Him. Then, He forgave them (accepted their repentance), that they might beg for His Pardon [repent (unto Him)]. Verily, Allah is the One Who forgives and accepts repentance, Most Merciful. O you who believe! Be afraid of Allah, and be with those who are true (in word and deeds)." (9:117,118).
Ka'b said: "By Allah, since Allah guided me to Islam, there has been no blessing more significant for me than this truth of mine which I spoke to Messenger of Allah (PBUH), and if I were to tell a lie I would have been ruined as were ruined those who had told lies, for Allah described those who told lies with the worst description He ever attributed to anybody else, as He sent down the Revelation:
They will swear by Allah to you (Muslims) when you return to them, that you may turn away from them. So turn away from them. Surely, they are Rijsun [i.e., Najasun (impure) because of their evil deeds], and Hell is their dwelling place - a recompense for that which they used to earn. They (the hypocrites) swear to you (Muslims) that you may be pleased with them, but if you are pleased with them, certainly Allah is not pleased with the people who are Al- Fa'siqun (rebellious, disobedient to Allah)". (9:95,96)
Ka'b further added: "The matter of the three of us remained pending for decision apart from the case of those who had made excuses on oath before Messenger of Allah (PBUH) and he accepted those, took fresh oaths of allegiance from them and supplicated for their forgiveness. The Prophet (PBUH) kept our matter pending till Allah decided it. The three whose matter was deferred have been shown mercy. The reference here is not to our staying back from the expedition but to his delaying our matter and keeping it pending beyond the matter of those who made their excuses on oath which he accepted".
[Al- Bukhari and Muslim]
Another version adds: "Messenger of Allah (PBUH) set out for Tabuk on Thursday. He used to prefer to set out on journey on Thursday." Another version says: "Messenger of Allah (PBUH) used to come back from a journey in the early forenoon and went straight to the mosque where he would perform two Rak'ah prayer. Afterwards he would seat himself there".
وكان من خبري حين تخلف عن رسول الله، صلى الله عليه وسلم، في غزوة تبوك أني لم أكن قط أقوى ولا أيسر مني حين تخلفت عنه في تلك الغزوة، والله ما جمعت قبلها راحلتين قط حتى جمعتهما في تلك الغزوة، ولم يكن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يريد غزوة إلا ورى بغيرها حتى كانت تلك الغزوة، فغزاها رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم في حر شديد، واستقبل سفراً بعيداً ومفازاً، واستقبل عدداً كثيراً، فجلى للمسلمين أمرهم ليتأهبوا أهبة غزوهم فأخبرهم بوجههم الذي يريد، والمسلمون مع رسول الله كثير ولا يجمعهم كتاب حافظ
"يريد بذلك الديوان" قال كعب: فقل رجل يريد أن يتغيب إلا ظن أن ذلك سيخفى به مالم ينزل فيه وحي من الله، وغزا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم تلك الغزوة حين طابت الثمار والظلال فأنا إليها أصعر فتجهز رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم والمسلمون معه، وطفقت أغدو لكي أتجهز معه، فأرجع ولم أقض شيئاً، وأقول في نفسي: أنا قادر ...| Reference | : Riyad as-Salihin 21 |
| In-book reference | : Introduction, Hadith 21 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan an-Nasa'i 1618 |
| In-book reference | : Book 20, Hadith 21 |
| English translation | : Vol. 2, Book 20, Hadith 1619 |
قَالَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ رَبَاحٍ فَسَمِعَنِي عِمْرَانُ بْنُ الْحُصَيْنِ، وَأَنَا أُحَدِّثُ، بِالْحَدِيثِ فَقَالَ يَا فَتًى انْظُرْ كَيْفَ تُحَدِّثُ فَإِنِّي شَاهِدٌ لِلْحَدِيثِ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ . قَالَ فَمَا أَنْكَرَ مِنْ حَدِيثِهِ شَيْئًا
.| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 698 |
| In-book reference | : Book 2, Hadith 32 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 2, Hadith 698 |
Another chain reports a similar hadith.
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ، أَنْبَأَنَا الثَّوْرِيُّ، عَنْ بُكَيْرِ بْنِ عَطَاءٍ اللَّيْثِيِّ، عَنْ ...
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 3015 |
| In-book reference | : Book 25, Hadith 134 |
| English translation | : Vol. 4, Book 25, Hadith 3015 |
| Grade: | Hasan (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 807 |
| In-book reference | : Book 5, Hadith 5 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 5, Hadith 807 |
| Grade: | Da’if (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 1503 |
| In-book reference | : Book 6, Hadith 71 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 6, Hadith 1503 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 3888 |
| In-book reference | : Book 34, Hadith 62 |
| English translation | : Vol. 5, Book 34, Hadith 3888 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 169 |
| In-book reference | : Introduction, Hadith 169 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 1, Hadith 169 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 282 |
| In-book reference | : Book 1, Hadith 16 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 1, Hadith 282 |
| Grade: | Hasan (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 529 |
| In-book reference | : Book 1, Hadith 263 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 1, Hadith 529 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 783 |
| In-book reference | : Book 4, Hadith 49 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 4, Hadith 783 |
| Grade: | Hasan (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 2089 |
| In-book reference | : Book 10, Hadith 74 |
| English translation | : Vol. 3, Book 10, Hadith 2089 |
| Grade: | Hasan (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 844 |
| In-book reference | : Book 5, Hadith 42 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 5, Hadith 844 |
| Grade: | Da'if (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 885 |
| In-book reference | : Book 9, Hadith 78 |
| English translation | : Vol. 2, Book 4, Hadith 885 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan an-Nasa'i 1049 |
| In-book reference | : Book 12, Hadith 21 |
| English translation | : Vol. 2, Book 12, Hadith 1050 |
| Grade: | Sahih li ghairih (Al-Albani) | صحيح لغيره (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Sunan Abi Dawud 4322 |
| In-book reference | : Book 39, Hadith 32 |
| English translation | : Book 38, Hadith 4308 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Al-Albani) | صحيح (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Sunan Abi Dawud 1043 |
| In-book reference | : Book 2, Hadith 654 |
| English translation | : Book 2, Hadith 1038 |
It has been reported on the authority of Salama b. Akwa' who said:
| Reference | : Sahih Muslim 1802b |
| In-book reference | : Book 32, Hadith 151 |
| USC-MSA web (English) reference | : Book 19, Hadith 4441 |
| (deprecated numbering scheme) |
| Grade: | Da'if (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 419 |
| In-book reference | : Book 1, Hadith 153 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 1, Hadith 419 |
| Grade: | Hasan (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 1667 |
| In-book reference | : Book 7, Hadith 30 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 7, Hadith 1667 |
قَالَ سُفْيَانُ لاَ أَدْرِي أَيَّتُهُنَّ أَرْبَعٌ .
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 927 |
| In-book reference | : Book 5, Hadith 125 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 5, Hadith 927 |
| Grade: | Hasan (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 1111 |
| In-book reference | : Book 5, Hadith 309 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 5, Hadith 1111 |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 1267 |
| In-book reference | : Book 5, Hadith 465 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 5, Hadith 1267 |
| Reference | : Hisn al-Muslim 208 |
| Grade: | Da’if (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 1628 |
| In-book reference | : Book 6, Hadith 196 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 6, Hadith 1628 |
| Grade: | Hasan (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 1498 |
| In-book reference | : Book 6, Hadith 66 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 6, Hadith 1498 |
It has been narrated by Ibrahim al-Taimi on the authority of his father who said:
| Reference | : Sahih Muslim 1788 |
| In-book reference | : Book 32, Hadith 122 |
| USC-MSA web (English) reference | : Book 19, Hadith 4412 |
| (deprecated numbering scheme) |
* It appears that the speaker is Ja’far bin Muhammad who is narrating from his father, from Jabir.
**And they say that the meaning if ‘your furniture’ or, ‘your special place’ in which case the objective is to say that the wife is not to admit anyone in the house whom the husband would be displeased with.
***Sakharat plural of Sakhrah rock or boulder. Nawawi said: “They are the rocks that lay at the base of the Mount of Mercy, and it is the mount in the middle of ‘Arafat.”
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 3074 |
| In-book reference | : Book 25, Hadith 193 |
| English translation | : Vol. 4, Book 25, Hadith 3074 |
| Reference | : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 707 |
| In-book reference | : Book 31, Hadith 104 |
| English translation | : Book 31, Hadith 707 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Al-Albani) | صحيح (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Sunan Abi Dawud 1221 |
| In-book reference | : Book 4, Hadith 24 |
| English translation | : Book 4, Hadith 1217 |
| Grade: | Da'if Mauquf (Al-Albani) | ضعيف موقوف (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Sunan Abi Dawud 833 |
| In-book reference | : Book 2, Hadith 443 |
| English translation | : Book 2, Hadith 832 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan an-Nasa'i 1456 |
| In-book reference | : Book 15, Hadith 24 |
| English translation | : Vol. 2, Book 15, Hadith 1457 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan an-Nasa'i 552 |
| In-book reference | : Book 6, Hadith 59 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 6, Hadith 553 |
Other chains report similar narrations.
| Grade: | Da'if (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2496 |
| In-book reference | : Book 37, Hadith 82 |
| English translation | : Vol. 4, Book 11, Hadith 2496 |
| Grade: | Da’if (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 3320 |
| In-book reference | : Book 47, Hadith 372 |
| English translation | : Vol. 5, Book 44, Hadith 3320 |
| Reference | : Mishkat al-Masabih 5726 |
| In-book reference | : Book 28, Hadith 196 |
| Grade: | Hasan (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 150 |
| In-book reference | : Introduction, Hadith 150 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 1, Hadith 150 |
| Grade: | Hasan (Darussalam)] (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Musnad Ahmad 838 |
| In-book reference | : Book 5, Hadith 268 |
Ibn ‘Umar said. `Umar (رضي الله عنه) told us: We were sitting with the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) and he mentioned the same hadeeth, except that he said: No signs of travel were to be seen on him. And he- said: `Umar said: 1 waited for three (days), then the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “oʻUmar...”
| Grade: | Lts isnad is Sahih, Muslim (8)] Sahih (Darussalam) [] (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Musnad Ahmad 367, 368 |
| In-book reference | : Book 2, Hadith 270 |
| صَحِيح (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Mishkat al-Masabih 4118 |
| In-book reference | : Book 20, Hadith 54 |
| مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Mishkat al-Masabih 5704 |
| In-book reference | : Book 28, Hadith 175 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Al-Albani) | صحيح (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Sunan Abi Dawud 601 |
| In-book reference | : Book 2, Hadith 211 |
| English translation | : Book 2, Hadith 601 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan an-Nasa'i 1797 |
| In-book reference | : Book 20, Hadith 200 |
| English translation | : Vol. 2, Book 20, Hadith 1798 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan an-Nasa'i 641 |
| In-book reference | : Book 7, Hadith 16 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 7, Hadith 642 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 213 |
| In-book reference | : Book 2, Hadith 65 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 2, Hadith 213 |
| Grade: | Da’if (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 1062 |
| In-book reference | : Book 5, Hadith 260 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 5, Hadith 1062 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 1263 |
| In-book reference | : Book 5, Hadith 461 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 5, Hadith 1263 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 1500 |
| In-book reference | : Book 6, Hadith 68 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 6, Hadith 1500 |
| صَحِيح (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Mishkat al-Masabih 5863 |
| In-book reference | : Book 29, Hadith 121 |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 1892 |
| In-book reference | : Book 9, Hadith 48 |
| English translation | : Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1892 |