وما ندم من استخار الخالق، وشاور المخلوقين المؤمنين وتثبَّت في أمره، فقد قال سبحانه ﴿وَشـاوِرْهُـم في الأمْـرِ فَـإِذا عَـزَمْـتَ فَتَوَكّـلْ عَلـى الله﴾
| Reference | : Hisn al-Muslim 74 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 13, Hadith 9328 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 5, Hadith 897 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2188 |
| In-book reference | : Book 33, Hadith 31 |
| English translation | : Vol. 4, Book 7, Hadith 2188 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 51, Hadith 6816 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 21, Hadith 2450 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2229 |
| In-book reference | : Book 33, Hadith 72 |
| English translation | : Vol. 4, Book 7, Hadith 2229 |
Narrated `Abdullah bin `Abbas:
I had been eager to ask `Umar about the two ladies from among the wives of the Prophet regarding whom Allah said (in the Qur'an saying): If you two (wives of the Prophet namely Aisha and Hafsa) turn in repentance to Allah your hearts are indeed so inclined (to oppose what the Prophet likes) (66.4), till performed the Hajj along with `Umar (and on our way back from Hajj) he went aside (to answer the call of nature) and I also went aside along with him carrying a tumbler of water. When he had answered the call of nature and returned. I poured water on his hands from the tumbler and he performed ablution. I said, "O Chief of the believers! ' Who were the two ladies from among the wives of the Prophet to whom Allah said: 'If you two return in repentance (66.4)? He said, "I am astonished at your question, O Ibn `Abbas. They were Aisha and Hafsa." Then `Umar went on relating the narration and said. "I and an Ansari neighbor of mine from Bani Umaiya bin Zaid who used to live in `Awali Al-Medina, used to visit the Prophet in turns. He used to go one day, and I another day. When I went I would bring him the news of what had happened that day regarding the instructions and orders and when he went, he used to do the same for me. We, the people of Quraish, used to have authority over women, but when we came to live with the Ansar, we noticed that the Ansari women had the upper hand over their men, so our women started acquiring the habits of the Ansari women. Once I shouted at my wife and she paid me back in my coin and I disliked that she should answer me back. She said, 'Why do you take it ill that I retort upon you? By Allah, the wives of the Prophet retort upon him, and some of them may not speak with him for the whole day till night.' What she said scared me and I said to her, 'Whoever amongst them does so, will be a great loser.' Then I dressed myself and went to Hafsa and asked her, 'Does any of you keep Allah's Apostle angry all the day long till night?' She replied in the affirmative. I said, 'She is a ruined losing person (and will never have success)! Doesn't she fear that Allah may get angry for the anger of Allah's Apostle and thus she will be ruined? Don't ask Allah's Apostle too many things, and don't retort upon him in any case, and don't desert him. Demand from me whatever you like, and don't be tempted to imitate your neighbor (i.e. `Aisha) in her behavior towards the Prophet), for she (i.e. ...
| Reference | : Sahih al-Bukhari 2468 |
| In-book reference | : Book 46, Hadith 29 |
| USC-MSA web (English) reference | : Vol. 3, Book 43, Hadith 648 |
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| Arabic reference | : Book 25, Hadith 3388 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 63, Hadith 6996 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 4341 |
| In-book reference | : Book 37, Hadith 242 |
| English translation | : Vol. 5, Book 37, Hadith 4341 |
| حسن صحيح الإسناد (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Sunan Abi Dawud 3576 |
| In-book reference | : Book 25, Hadith 6 |
| English translation | : Book 24, Hadith 3569 |
Narrated 'Aisha:
(the wife of the Prophet) I never remembered my parents believing in any religion other than the true religion (i.e. Islam), and (I don't remember) a single day passing without our being visited by Allah's Apostle in the morning and in the evening. When the Muslims were put to test (i.e. troubled by the pagans), Abu Bakr set out migrating to the land of Ethiopia, and when he reached Bark-al-Ghimad, Ibn Ad-Daghina, the chief of the tribe of Qara, met him and said, "O Abu Bakr! Where are you going?" Abu Bakr replied, "My people have turned me out (of my country), so I want to wander on the earth and worship my Lord." Ibn Ad-Daghina said, "O Abu Bakr! A man like you should not leave his home-land, nor should he be driven out, because you help the destitute, earn their livings, and you keep good relations with your Kith and kin, help the weak and poor, entertain guests generously, and help the calamity-stricken persons. Therefore I am your protector. Go back and worship your Lord in your town."
So Abu Bakr returned and Ibn Ad-Daghina accompanied him. In the evening Ibn Ad-Daghina visited the nobles of Quraish and said to them. "A man like Abu Bakr should not leave his homeland, nor should he be driven out. Do you (i.e. Quraish) drive out a man who helps the destitute, earns their living, keeps good relations with his Kith and kin, helps the weak and poor, entertains guests generously and helps the calamity-stricken persons?" So the people of Quraish could not refuse Ibn Ad-Daghina's protection, and they said to Ibn Ad-Daghina, "Let Abu Bakr worship his Lord in his house. He can pray and recite there whatever he likes, but he should not hurt us with it, and should not do it publicly, because we are afraid that he may affect our women and children." Ibn Ad-Daghina told Abu Bakr of all that. Abu Bakr stayed in that state, worshipping his Lord in his house. He did not pray publicly, nor did he recite Quran outside his house.
Then a thought occurred to Abu Bakr to build a mosque in front of his house, and there he used to pray and recite the Quran. The women and children of the pagans began to gather around him in great number. They used to wonder at him and look at him. Abu Bakr was a man who used to weep too much, and he could not help weeping on reciting the Quran. That situation scared the nobles of the pagans of Quraish, so they sent for Ibn Ad-Daghina. When he came to them, they said, "We accepted your protection ...
| Reference | : Sahih al-Bukhari 3905 |
| In-book reference | : Book 63, Hadith 130 |
| USC-MSA web (English) reference | : Vol. 5, Book 58, Hadith 245 |
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| Arabic reference | : Book 48, Hadith 8578 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 15, Hadith 15269 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 15, Hadith 15431 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 33, Hadith 7382 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 29, Hadith 7044 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 10, Hadith 12155 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 14, Hadith 2973 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 37, Hadith 36079 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 20, Hadith 15172 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 10, Hadith 18779 |
| Reference | : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 740 |
| In-book reference | : Book 32, Hadith 137 |
| English translation | : Book 31, Hadith 740 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 2, Hadith 4531 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 12, Hadith 2205 |
| Grade: | Hasan (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 3253 |
| In-book reference | : Book 47, Hadith 305 |
| English translation | : Vol. 5, Book 44, Hadith 3253 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 36, Hadith 1408 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 12, Hadith 21854 |
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
The narration in Bukhari adds: Ibn 'Uyainah relates that a man from the Ansar told him that he had seen nine sons of this 'Abdullah, every one of whom had committed the Noble Qur'an to memory.
The narration of Muslim says: The son of Abu Talhah (May Allah be pleased with him) who was born of Umm Sulaim died. She (Umm Sulaim) said to the members of the family: "Do not tell Abu Talhah about his son until I mention it to him myself." Abu Talhah came (home) and she gave him supper. He ate and drank. She then beautified herself the best way she ever did and he slept with her. When she saw that he was satisfied after sexual intercourse with her, she said, "O Abu Talhah! If some people borrow something from another family and then (the members of the family) ask for its return, would they refuse to give it back to them." He said, "No". She said, "Then hope reward for your son". Abu Talhah got angry, and said; "You left me uninformed until I stained myself (with sexual intercourse) and then you told me about my son. "He went to Messenger of Allah (PBUH) and informed him about the matter. Thereupon Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "May Allah bless the night you spent together!" He (the narrator) said: She conceived. (One day) Messenger of Allah (PBUH) was in the course of a journey and she was along with him. When Messenger of Allah (PBUH) used to come back to ...
وفى رواية لمسلم: مات ابن لأبي طلحة بن أم سليم ، فقالت لأهلها لا تحدثوا أبا طلحة بابنه حتى أكون أنا أحدثه، فجاء فقربت إليه عشاءً فأكل وشرب، ثم تصنعت له أحسن ما كانت تصنع قبل ذلك، فوقع بها، فلما أن رأت أنه قد شبع وأصاب منها قالت: يا أبا طلحة، أرأيت لو أن قوماً أعاروا عاريتهم أهل بيت فطلبوا عاريتهم، ألهم أن يمنعوهم؟ قال: لا، فقالت : فاحتسب ابنك. قال: فغضب، ثم قال: تركتني حتى إذا تلطخت أخبرتني بابني؟! فانطلق حتى أتى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم فأخبره بما كان ، فقال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم. "بارك الله في ليلتكما" قال: فحملت، قال وكان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم في سفر وهي معه، وكان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم إذا أتى المدينة من سفر لا يطرقها طروقاً فدنوا من المدينة، فضربها المخاض، فاحتبس عليها أبو طلحة، وانطلق رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال: يقول أبو طلحة: إنك لتعلم يارب أنه يعجبني أن أخرج مع رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم إذا خرج، وأدخل معه إذا دخل، وقد احتبست بما ترى، تقول أم سليم: يا أبا طلحة ما أجد الذى كنت أجد، انطلق، فانطلقنا، وضربها المخاض حين قدما فولدت غلاماً. فقالت لي أمي : يا أنس لا يرضعه أحد حتى تغدو به على رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم، فلما أصبح احتملته فانطلقت به إلى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم. وذكر تمام الحديث.
| Reference | : Riyad as-Salihin 44 |
| In-book reference | : Introduction, Hadith 44 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 38, Hadith 37022 |
| مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Sunnah.com reference | : Book 30, Hadith 280 |
| English translation | : Book 26, Hadith 0 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 30, Hadith 6267 |
| Sunnah.com reference | : Book 11, Hadith 14 |
| English translation | : Book 11, Hadith 1311 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 11, Hadith 1284 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 3, Hadith 3156 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 18, Hadith 25485 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 0, Hadith 12 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 34, Hadith 34808 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 1, Hadith 40 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 10, Hadith 12931 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 1489 |
| In-book reference | : Book 6, Hadith 57 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 6, Hadith 1489 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 62, Hadith 6813 |
وَالْبَيْهَقِيُّ فِي شُعَبِ الْإِيمَانِ عَنِ النَّوَّاسِ بْنِ سَمْعَانَ وَكَذَا التِّرْمِذِيُّ عَنْهُ إِلَّا أَنَّهُ ذَكَرَ أخصر مِنْهُ
| Grade: | No basis for this wording، see Hadīth 192 instead, Hasan (Zubair `Aliza'i) | لا أصل له بهذا اللفظ، وانظر الحديس ١٩٢، حسن (زبیر علی زئی) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Mishkat al-Masabih 191, 192 |
| In-book reference | : Book 1, Hadith 183 |
| Reference | : Mishkat al-Masabih 5423 |
| In-book reference | : Book 27, Hadith 44 |
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
| Reference | : Riyad as-Salihin 291 |
| In-book reference | : Introduction, Hadith 291 |
[Muslim].
| Reference | : Riyad as-Salihin 1810 |
| In-book reference | : Book 18, Hadith 3 |
| Grade: | Hasan (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 4079 |
| In-book reference | : Book 36, Hadith 154 |
| English translation | : Vol. 5, Book 36, Hadith 4079 |