| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan an-Nasa'i 2277 |
| In-book reference | : Book 22, Hadith 188 |
| English translation | : Vol. 3, Book 22, Hadith 2279 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan an-Nasa'i 5336 |
| In-book reference | : Book 48, Hadith 297 |
| English translation | : Vol. 6, Book 48, Hadith 5338 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan an-Nasa'i 137 |
| In-book reference | : Book 1, Hadith 138 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 1, Hadith 137 |
Narrated Yusayrah, mother of Yasir:
The Prophet (saws) commanded them (the women emigrants) to be regular (in remembering Allah by saying): "Allah is most great"; "Glory be to the King, the Holy"; "there is no god but Allah"; and that they should count them on fingers, for they (the fingers) will be questioned and asked to speak.
| Grade: | Hasan (Al-Albani) | حسن (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Sunan Abi Dawud 1501 |
| In-book reference | : Book 8, Hadith 86 |
| English translation | : Book 8, Hadith 1496 |
Narrated A sister of Hudhayfah:
The Prophet (saws) as saying : You women folk, have in silver something with which you adorn yourselves. I assure you that any woman of you who adorns herself with gold which she displays will be punished for it.
| Grade: | Da'if (Al-Albani) | ضعيف (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Sunan Abi Dawud 4237 |
| In-book reference | : Book 36, Hadith 24 |
| English translation | : Book 35, Hadith 4225 |
| Grade: | Da'if (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 927 |
| In-book reference | : Book 9, Hadith 120 |
| English translation | : Vol. 2, Book 4, Hadith 927 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2785 |
| In-book reference | : Book 43, Hadith 57 |
| English translation | : Vol. 5, Book 41, Hadith 2785 |
| Grade: | Da'if (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 3909 |
| In-book reference | : Book 49, Hadith 309 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 46, Hadith 3909 |
| مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Mishkat al-Masabih 3147 |
| In-book reference | : Book 13, Hadith 67 |
| مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Mishkat al-Masabih 2514 |
| In-book reference | : Book 10, Hadith 9 |
Narrated `Aisha:
Once Fatima came walking and her gait resembled the gait of the Prophet . The Prophet said, "Welcome, O my daughter!" Then he made her sit on his right or on his left side, and then he told her a secret and she started weeping. I asked her, "Why are you weeping?" He again told her a secret and she started laughing. I said, "I never saw happiness so near to sadness as I saw today." I asked her what the Prophet had told her. She said, "I would never disclose the secret of Allah's Apostle." When the Prophet died, I asked her about it. She replied. "The Prophet said: 'Every year Gabriel used to revise the Qur'an with me once only, but this year he has done so twice. I think this portends my death, and you will be the first of my family to follow me.' So I started weeping. Then he said. 'Don't you like to be the chief of all the ladies of Paradise or the chief of the believing women? So I laughed for that."
| Reference | : Sahih al-Bukhari 3623, 3624 |
| In-book reference | : Book 61, Hadith 129 |
| USC-MSA web (English) reference | : Vol. 4, Book 56, Hadith 819 |
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| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 3280 |
| In-book reference | : Book 29, Hadith 30 |
| English translation | : Vol. 4, Book 29, Hadith 3280 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 2874 |
| In-book reference | : Book 24, Hadith 122 |
| English translation | : Vol. 4, Book 24, Hadith 2874 |
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi and Abdullah ibn Dinar from Abdullah ibn Umar that Umar ibn al-Khattab gave a khutba to the people at Arafa and taught them the conduct of the hajj, and one of the things he said to them in his speech was, "When you get to Mina and have stoned the jamra then whatever is haram for someone doing the hajj becomes halal, except women and scent. No-one should touch women or scent until he has done tawaf of the House."
| USC-MSA web (English) reference | : Book 20, Hadith 230 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 20, Hadith 927 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2205 |
| In-book reference | : Book 33, Hadith 48 |
| English translation | : Vol. 4, Book 7, Hadith 2205 |
| مُتَّفق عَلَيْهِ (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Mishkat al-Masabih 4045 |
| In-book reference | : Book 19, Hadith 255 |
Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah:
Allah's Apostle said, "Who is willing to kill Ka`b bin Al-Ashraf who has hurt Allah and His Apostle?" Thereupon Muhammad bin Maslama got up saying, "O Allah's Apostle! Would you like that I kill him?" The Prophet said, "Yes," Muhammad bin Maslama said, "Then allow me to say a (false) thing (i.e. to deceive Ka`b). "The Prophet said, "You may say it." Then Muhammad bin Maslama went to Ka`b and said, "That man (i.e. Muhammad demands Sadaqa (i.e. Zakat) from us, and he has troubled us, and I have come to borrow something from you." On that, Ka`b said, "By Allah, you will get tired of him!" Muhammad bin Maslama said, "Now as we have followed him, we do not want to leave him unless and until we see how his end is going to be. Now we want you to lend us a camel load or two of food." (Some difference between narrators about a camel load or two.) Ka`b said, "Yes, (I will lend you), but you should mortgage something to me." Muhammad bin Mas-lama and his companion said, "What do you want?" Ka`b replied, "Mortgage your women to me." They said, "How can we mortgage our women to you and you are the most handsome of the 'Arabs?" Ka`b said, "Then mortgage your sons to me." They said, "How can we mortgage our sons to you? Later they would be abused by the people's saying that so-and-so has been mortgaged for a camel load of food. That would cause us great disgrace, but we will mortgage our arms to you." Muhammad bin Maslama and his companion promised Ka`b that Muhammad would return to him. He came to Ka`b at night along with Ka`b's foster brother, Abu Na'ila. Ka`b invited them to come into his fort, and then he went down to them. His wife asked him, "Where are you going at this time?" Ka`b replied, "None but Muhammad bin Maslama and my (foster) brother Abu Na'ila have come." His wife said, "I hear a voice as if dropping blood is from him, Ka`b said. "They are none but my brother Muhammad bin Maslama and my foster brother Abu Naila. A generous man should respond to a call at night even if invited to be killed." Muhammad bin Maslama went with two men. (Some narrators mention the men as 'Abu bin Jabr. Al Harith bin Aus and `Abbad bin Bishr). So Muhammad bin Maslama went in together with two men, and sail to them, "When Ka`b comes, I will touch his hair and smell it, and when you see that I have got hold of his head, strip him. I will let you smell his head." Ka`b bin Al-Ashraf came down to them wrapped in his clothes, and diffusing perfume. Muhammad bin Maslama said. " have never smelt a better scent than this. Ka`b replied. "I have got the best 'Arab women who know how to use the high class of perfume." Muhammad bin Maslama requested Ka`b "Will you allow me to smell your head?" Ka`b said, "Yes." Muhammad smelt it and made his companions smell it as well. Then he requested Ka`b again, "Will you let me (smell your head)?" Ka`b said, "Yes." When Muhammad got a strong hold of him, he said (to his companions), "Get at him!" So they killed him and went to the Prophet and informed him. (Abu Rafi`) was killed after Ka`b bin Al-Ashraf."
| Reference | : Sahih al-Bukhari 4037 |
| In-book reference | : Book 64, Hadith 84 |
| USC-MSA web (English) reference | : Vol. 5, Book 59, Hadith 369 |
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Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:
Ata' ibn AbuRabah asked Aisha: Can women offer prayer on a riding beast? She replied: They were not permitted to do so in hardship or comfort. Muhammad ibn Shu'ayb said: This (prohibition) applies to the obligatory prayers.
| Grade: | Sahih (Al-Albani) | صحيح (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Sunan Abi Dawud 1228 |
| In-book reference | : Book 4, Hadith 31 |
| English translation | : Book 4, Hadith 1224 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Al-Albani) | صحيح (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Sunan Abi Dawud 2047 |
| In-book reference | : Book 12, Hadith 2 |
| English translation | : Book 11, Hadith 2042 |
| Grade: | Hasan (Al-Albani) | حسن (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Sunan Abi Dawud 252 |
| In-book reference | : Book 1, Hadith 252 |
| English translation | : Book 1, Hadith 252 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Al-Albani) | صحيح (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Sunan Abi Dawud 688 |
| In-book reference | : Book 2, Hadith 298 |
| English translation | : Book 2, Hadith 688 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan an-Nasa'i 2583 |
| In-book reference | : Book 23, Hadith 149 |
| English translation | : Vol. 3, Book 23, Hadith 2584 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan an-Nasa'i 3224 |
| In-book reference | : Book 26, Hadith 29 |
| English translation | : Vol. 4, Book 26, Hadith 3226 |
| Grade: | Da'if (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 320 |
| In-book reference | : Book 2, Hadith 172 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 2, Hadith 320 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 1851 |
| In-book reference | : Book 9, Hadith 7 |
| English translation | : Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1851 |
‘Aishah said: “Whoever among the believing women affirmed this, passed the test. When they affirmed that, the Messenger of Allah (saw) would say to them: ‘Go, for you have given your pledge.’ No, by Allah! The hand of the Messenger of Allah (saw) never touched the hand of any woman, rather he accepted their pledge in words only.” ‘Aishah said: “By Allah, the Messenger of Allah (saw) did not demand of women (in their pledge) anything other than that which Allah had commanded, and the hand of the Messenger of Allah (saw) never touched the hand of a woman. He would say to them, when he had accepted their pledge: ‘You have given your pledge,’ verbally.”
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 2875 |
| In-book reference | : Book 24, Hadith 123 |
| English translation | : Vol. 4, Book 24, Hadith 2875 |
Narrated `Abdullah bin `Abbas:
I had been eager to ask `Umar about the two ladies from among the wives of the Prophet regarding whom Allah said (in the Qur'an saying): If you two (wives of the Prophet namely Aisha and Hafsa) turn in repentance to Allah your hearts are indeed so inclined (to oppose what the Prophet likes) (66.4), till performed the Hajj along with `Umar (and on our way back from Hajj) he went aside (to answer the call of nature) and I also went aside along with him carrying a tumbler of water. When he had answered the call of nature and returned. I poured water on his hands from the tumbler and he performed ablution. I said, "O Chief of the believers! ' Who were the two ladies from among the wives of the Prophet to whom Allah said: 'If you two return in repentance (66.4)? He said, "I am astonished at your question, O Ibn `Abbas. They were Aisha and Hafsa." Then `Umar went on relating the narration and said. "I and an Ansari neighbor of mine from Bani Umaiya bin Zaid who used to live in `Awali Al-Medina, used to visit the Prophet in turns. He used to go one day, and I another day. When I went I would bring him the news of what had happened that day regarding the instructions and orders and when he went, he used to do the same for me. We, the people of Quraish, used to have authority over women, but when we came to live with the Ansar, we noticed that the Ansari women had the upper hand over their men, so our women started acquiring the habits of the Ansari women. Once I shouted at my wife and she paid me back in my coin and I disliked that she should answer me back. She said, 'Why do you take it ill that I retort upon you? By Allah, the wives of the Prophet retort upon him, and some of them may not speak with him for the whole day till night.' What she said scared me and I said to her, 'Whoever amongst them does so, will be a great loser.' Then I dressed myself and went to Hafsa and asked her, 'Does any of you keep Allah's Apostle angry all the day long till night?' She replied in the affirmative. I said, 'She is a ruined losing person (and will never have success)! Doesn't she fear that Allah may get angry for the anger of Allah's Apostle and thus she will be ruined? Don't ask Allah's Apostle too many things, and don't retort upon him in any case, and don't desert him. Demand from me whatever you like, and don't be tempted to imitate your neighbor (i.e. `Aisha) in her behavior towards the Prophet), for she (i.e. Aisha) is more beautiful than you, and more beloved to Allah's Apostle. In those days it was rumored that Ghassan, (a tribe living in Sham) was getting prepared their horses to invade us. My companion went (to the Prophet on the day of his turn, went and returned to us at night and knocked at my door violently, asking whether I was sleeping. I was scared (by the hard knocking) and came out to him. He said that a great thing had happened. I asked him: What is it? Have Ghassan come? He replied that it was worse and more serious than that, and added that Allah's Apostle had divorced all his wives. I said, Hafsa is a ruined loser! I expected that would happen some day.' So I dressed myself and offered the Fajr prayer with the Prophet. Then the Prophet entered an upper room and stayed there alone. I went to Hafsa and found her weeping. I asked her, 'Why are you weeping? Didn't I warn you? Have Allah's Apostle divorced you all?' She replied, 'I don't know. He is there in the upper room.' I then went out and came to the pulpit and found a group of people around it and some of them were weeping. Then I sat with them for some time, but could not endure the situation. So I went to the upper room where the Prophet was and requested to a black slave of his: "Will you get the permission of (Allah's Apostle) for `Umar (to enter)? The slave went in, talked to the Prophet about it and came out saying, 'I mentioned you to him but he did not reply.' So, I went and sat with the people who were sitting by the pulpit, but I could not bear the situation, so I went to the slave again and said: "Will you get he permission for `Umar? He went in and brought the same reply as before. When I was leaving, behold, the slave called me saying, "Allah's Apostle has granted you permission." So, I entered upon the Prophet and saw him lying on a mat without wedding on it, and the mat had left its mark on the body of the Prophet, and he was leaning on a leather pillow stuffed with palm fires. I greeted him and while still standing, I said: "Have you divorced your wives?' He raised his eyes to me and replied in the negative. And then while still standing, I said chatting: "Will you heed what I say, 'O Allah's Apostle! We, the people of Quraish used to have the upper hand over our women (wives), and when we came to the people whose women had the upper hand over them..." `Umar told the whole story (about his wife). "On that the Prophet smiled." `Umar further said, "I then said, 'I went to Hafsa and said to her: Do not be tempted to imitate your companion (`Aisha) for she is more beautiful than you and more beloved to the Prophet.' The Prophet smiled again. When I saw him smiling, I sat down and cast a glance at the room, and by Allah, I couldn't see anything of importance but three hides. I said (to Allah's Apostle) "Invoke Allah to make your followers prosperous for the Persians and the Byzantines have been made prosperous and given worldly luxuries, though they do not worship Allah?' The Prophet was leaning then (and on hearing my speech he sat straight) and said, 'O Ibn Al-Khattab! Do you have any doubt (that the Hereafter is better than this world)? These people have been given rewards of their good deeds in this world only.' I asked the Prophet . 'Please ask Allah's forgiveness for me. The Prophet did not go to his wives because of the secret which Hafsa had disclosed to `Aisha, and he said that he would not go to his wives for one month as he was angry with them when Allah admonished him (for his oath that he would not approach Maria). When twenty-nine days had passed, the Prophet went to Aisha first of all. She said to him, 'You took an oath that you would not come to us for one month, and today only twenty-nine days have passed, as I have been counting them day by day.' The Prophet said, 'The month is also of twenty-nine days.' That month consisted of twenty-nine days. `Aisha said, 'When the Divine revelation of Choice was revealed, the Prophet started with me, saying to me, 'I am telling you something, but you need not hurry to give the reply till you can consult your parents." `Aisha knew that her parents would not advise her to part with the Prophet . The Prophet said that Allah had said: 'O Prophet! Say To your wives; If you desire The life of this world And its glitter, ... then come! I will make a provision for you and set you free In a handsome manner. But if you seek Allah And His Apostle, and The Home of the Hereafter, then Verily, Allah has prepared For the good-doers amongst you A great reward.' (33.28) `Aisha said, 'Am I to consult my parents about this? I indeed prefer Allah, His Apostle, and the Home of the Hereafter.' After that the Prophet gave the choice to his other wives and they also gave the same reply as `Aisha did."
| Reference | : Sahih al-Bukhari 2468 |
| In-book reference | : Book 46, Hadith 29 |
| USC-MSA web (English) reference | : Vol. 3, Book 43, Hadith 648 |
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| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan an-Nasa'i 3199 |
| In-book reference | : Book 26, Hadith 4 |
| English translation | : Vol. 4, Book 26, Hadith 3201 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan an-Nasa'i 5245 |
| In-book reference | : Book 48, Hadith 206 |
| English translation | : Vol. 6, Book 48, Hadith 5247 |
Narrated Qabisah:
I heard the Messenger of Allah (saws) say: Augury from the flight of birds, taking evil omens and the practice of pressomancy pertain to divination. Tarq: It is used in the sense of divination in which women threw stones. 'Iyafah: It means geomancy by drawing lines.
| Grade: | Da'if (Al-Albani) | ضعيف (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Sunan Abi Dawud 3907 |
| In-book reference | : Book 30, Hadith 4 |
| English translation | : Book 29, Hadith 3898 |
Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Abdullah ibn Umar used to disapprove of passing in front of women while they were praying.
| USC-MSA web (English) reference | : Book 9, Hadith 39 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 9, Hadith 368 |
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 3887 |
| In-book reference | : Book 49, Hadith 287 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 46, Hadith 3887 |
| Reference | : Mishkat al-Masabih 2654 |
| In-book reference | : Book 10, Hadith 145 |
| صَحِيحٌ (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Mishkat al-Masabih 1062 |
| In-book reference | : Book 4, Hadith 480 |
That Najdah Al-Haruri wrote to Ibn 'Abbas asking if the Messenger of Allah (saws) would fight along with women, and if he would fix a share of the spoils of war for them. Ibn 'Abbas wrote to him: "You wrote to me asking me if the Messenger of Allah (saws) would fight along with women. He did fight along with them, as they would treat the wounded. They received something from the spoils of war, but as for their share, then he did not fix a share for them."
There is something on this topic from Anas and Umm 'Atiyyah.
This Hadith is Hasan Sahih. This is acted upon according to most of the people of knowledge. It is the view of Sufyan Ath-Thawri and Ash-Shafi'i. Some of them said that a share is given to the woman and the boy, and this is the view of Al-Awza'i.
Al-Awza'i said: The Prophet (saws) gave a portion to the boys at Khaibar, and the Aimmah of the Muslims gave a portion to every child born in the land of war." Al-Awza'i said: "The Prophet (saws) gave a portion to the women at Khaibar, and that was followed by the Muslims after him." This was narrated to us by 'Ali bin Khashram (who said): "'Eisa bin Yunus narrated this to us from Al-Awza'i."
The meaning of his saying: "They received something from the spoils of war" it is said that he conferred something on them (the women) from the spoils of war.
| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 1556 |
| In-book reference | : Book 21, Hadith 11 |
| English translation | : Vol. 3, Book 19, Hadith 1556 |
| مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Mishkat al-Masabih 1934 |
| In-book reference | : Book 6, Hadith 159 |
Narrated `Aisha:
After the slanderers had given a forged statement against her, Allah's Apostle called `Ali bin Abi Talib and Usama bin Zaid when the Divine Inspiration was delayed. He wanted to ask them and consult them about the question of divorcing me. Usama gave his evidence that was based on what he knew about my innocence, but `Ali said, "Allah has not put restrictions on you and there are many women other than her. Furthermore you may ask the slave girl who will tell you the truth." So the Prophet asked Barira (my salve girl), "Have you seen anything that may arouse your suspicion?" She replied, "I have not seen anything more than that she is a little girl who sleeps, leaving the dough of her family (unguarded) that the domestic goats come and eat it." Then the Prophet stood on the pulpit and said, "O Muslims! Who will help me against the man who has harmed me by slandering my wife? By Allah, I know nothing about my family except good." The narrator added: Then the Prophet mentioned the innocence of `Aisha. (See Hadith No. 274, Vol. 6)
| Reference | : Sahih al-Bukhari 7369 |
| In-book reference | : Book 96, Hadith 96 |
| USC-MSA web (English) reference | : Vol. 9, Book 92, Hadith 462 |
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| Grade: | Sahih (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 187 |
| In-book reference | : Introduction, Hadith 187 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 1, Hadith 187 |
Abu Sirma said to Abu Sa'id al Khadri (Allah he pleased with him):
| Reference | : Sahih Muslim 1438a |
| In-book reference | : Book 16, Hadith 146 |
| USC-MSA web (English) reference | : Book 8, Hadith 3371 |
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Fatima bint Qais (Allah be pleased with her) reported that her husband divorced her with three, pronouncements and Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) made no provision for her lodging and maintenance allowance. She (further said):
| Reference | : Sahih Muslim 1480p |
| In-book reference | : Book 18, Hadith 60 |
| USC-MSA web (English) reference | : Book 9, Hadith 3526 |
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Abu Huraira reported Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) as saying:
| Reference | : Sahih Muslim 1720a |
| In-book reference | : Book 30, Hadith 26 |
| USC-MSA web (English) reference | : Book 18, Hadith 4269 |
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| Grade: | Da'if (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan an-Nasa'i 1859 |
| In-book reference | : Book 21, Hadith 42 |
| English translation | : Vol. 3, Book 21, Hadith 1860 |
| Grade: | Da’if (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Sunan Ibn Majah 4001 |
| In-book reference | : Book 36, Hadith 76 |
| English translation | : Vol. 5, Book 36, Hadith 4001 |
Narrated `Aisha:
(the wife of the Prophet) that she was told that `Abdullah bin Az-Zubair (on hearing that she was selling or giving something as a gift) said, "By Allah, if `Aisha does not give up this, I will declare her incompetent to dispose of her wealth." I said, "Did he (`Abdullah bin Az-Zubair) say so?" They (people) said, "Yes." `Aisha said, "I vow to Allah that I will never speak to Ibn Az-Zubair." When this desertion lasted long, `Abdullah bin Az-Zubair sought intercession with her, but she said, "By Allah, I will not accept the intercession of anyone for him, and will not commit a sin by breaking my vow." When this state of affairs was prolonged on Ibn Az-Zubair (he felt it hard on him), he said to Al- Miswar bin Makhrama and `Abdur-Rahman bin Al-Aswad bin 'Abu Yaghuth, who were from the tribe of Bani Zahra, "I beseech you, by Allah, to let me enter upon `Aisha, for it is unlawful for her to vow to cut the relation with me." So Al-Miswar and `Abdur-Rahman, wrapping their sheets around themselves, asked `Aisha's permission saying, "Peace and Allah's Mercy and Blessings be upon you! Shall we come in?" `Aisha said, "Come in." They said, "All of us?" She said, "Yes, come in all of you," not knowing that Ibn Az- Zubair was also with them. So when they entered, Ibn Az-Zubair entered the screened place and got hold of `Aisha and started requesting her to excuse him, and wept. Al-Miswar and `Abdur Rahman also started requesting her to speak to him and to accept his repentance. They said (to her), "The Prophet forbade what you know of deserting (not speaking to your Muslim Brethren), for it is unlawful for any Muslim not to talk to his brother for more than three nights (days)." So when they increased their reminding her (of the superiority of having good relation with Kith and kin, and of excusing others' sins), and brought her down to a critical situation, she started reminding them, and wept, saying, "I have made a vow, and (the question of) vow is a difficult one." They (Al-Miswar and `Abdur-Rahman) persisted in their appeal till she spoke with `Abdullah bin Az- Zubair and she manumitted forty slaves as an expiation for her vow. Later on, whenever she remembered her vow, she used to weep so much that her veil used to become wet with her tears.
| Reference | : Sahih al-Bukhari 6073-6075 |
| In-book reference | : Book 78, Hadith 103 |
| USC-MSA web (English) reference | : Vol. 8, Book 73, Hadith 98 |
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Yahya related to me from Malik from Yahya ibn Said that Said ibn al-Musayyab said, "Divorce belongs to men, and women have the idda."
| USC-MSA web (English) reference | : Book 29, Hadith 70 |
| Arabic reference | : Book 29, Hadith 1231 |
| Grade: | Hasan (Darussalam) |
| Reference | : Jami` at-Tirmidhi 1166 |
| In-book reference | : Book 12, Hadith 21 |
| English translation | : Vol. 1, Book 7, Hadith 1166 |
| مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Mishkat al-Masabih 3085 |
| In-book reference | : Book 13, Hadith 6 |
| لم تتمّ دراسته (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Mishkat al-Masabih 3094 |
| In-book reference | : Book 13, Hadith 15 |
| صَحِيح (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Mishkat al-Masabih 4428 |
| In-book reference | : Book 22, Hadith 117 |
Narrated Abdullah Ibn Abbas:
Ibn Umar misunderstood (the Qur'anic verse, "So come to your tilth however you will")--may Allah forgive him. The fact is that this clan of the Ansar, who were idolaters, lived in the company of the Jews who were the people of the Book. They (the Ansar) accepted their superiority over themselves in respect of knowledge, and they followed most of their actions. The people of the Book (i.e. the Jews) used to have intercourse with their women on one side alone (i.e. lying on their backs). This was the most concealing position for (the vagina of) the women. This clan of the Ansar adopted this practice from them. But this tribe of the Quraysh used to uncover their women completely, and seek pleasure with them from in front and behind and laying them on their backs.
When the muhajirun (the immigrants) came to Medina, a man married a woman of the Ansar. He began to do the same kind of action with her, but she disliked it, and said to him: We were approached on one side (i.e. lying on the back); do it so, otherwise keep away from me. This matter of theirs spread widely, and it reached the Messenger of Allah (saws).
So Allah, the Exalted, sent down the Qur'anic verse: "Your wives are a tilth to you, so come to your tilth however you will," i.e. from in front, from behind or lying on the back. But this verse meant the place of the delivery of the child, i.e. the vagina.
| Grade: | Hasan (Al-Albani) | حسن (الألباني) | حكم : |
| Reference | : Sunan Abi Dawud 2164 |
| In-book reference | : Book 12, Hadith 119 |
| English translation | : Book 11, Hadith 2159 |