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كتاب النكاح
67  
Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah)
(81)
Chapter: The exhortation of taking care of the women
(80)
باب الْوَصَاةِ بِالنِّسَاءِ
Sahih al-Bukhari 5187

Narrated Ibn `Umar:

During the lifetime of the Prophet (ﷺ) we used to avoid chatting leisurely and freely with our wives lest some Divine inspiration might be revealed concerning us. But when the Prophet (ﷺ) had died, we started chatting leisurely and freely (with them).

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ دِينَارٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ ـ رضى الله عنهما ـ قَالَ كُنَّا نَتَّقِي الْكَلاَمَ وَالاِنْبِسَاطَ إِلَى نِسَائِنَا عَلَى عَهْدِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم هَيْبَةَ أَنْ يُنْزَلَ فِينَا شَىْءٌ فَلَمَّا تُوُفِّيَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم تَكَلَّمْنَا وَانْبَسَطْنَا‏.‏
Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 5187
In-book reference : Book 67, Hadith 121
USC-MSA web (English) reference : Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 115
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